The holiday season is a time
full of joy, cheer, parties, and family gatherings. However, for many
people, it is a time of self-evaluation, loneliness, reflection on past
failures, and anxiety about an uncertain future.
What Causes Holiday Blues?
Many factors can cause the "holiday blues": stress, fatigue,
unrealistic expectations, over-commercialization, financial constraints, and
the inability to be with one’s family and friends. The demands of
shopping, parties, family reunions, and house guests also contribute to
feelings of tension. People who do not become depressed may develop other
stress responses, such as: headaches, excessive drinking, over-eating, and
difficulty sleeping. Even more people experience post-holiday let down after
January first. This can result from disappointments during the preceding
months compounded with the excess fatigue and stress.
Coping with stress and depression during the
holidays
- Keep expectations for the holiday season manageable. Try to set
realistic goals for yourself. Pace yourself. Organize your time. Make a
list and prioritize the important activities. Be realistic about what
you can and cannot do. Do not put entire focus on just one day (i.e.,
Thanksgiving Day) remember it is a season of holiday sentiment and
activities can be spread out (time-wise) to lessen stress and increase
enjoyment.
- Remember the holiday season does not banish reasons for feeling sad or
lonely; there is room for these feelings to be present, even if the
person chooses not to express them.
- Leave "yesteryear" in the past and look toward the future.
Life brings changes. Each season is different and can be enjoyed in its
own way. Don’t set yourself up in comparing today with the "good
ol’ days."
- Do something for someone else. Try volunteering some time to help
others.
- Enjoy activities that are free, such as driving around to look at
holiday decorations; going window shopping without buying; making a
snowperson with children.
- Be aware that excessive drinking will only increase your feelings of
depression.
- Try something new. Celebrate the holidays in a new way.
- Spend time with supportive and caring people. Reach out and make new
friends or contact someone you have not heard from for awhile.
- Save time for yourself! Recharge your batteries! Let others share
responsibility of activities.
Can Environment be a Factor?
Recent studies show that some people suffer from seasonal affective disorder
(SAD) which results from fewer hours of sunlight as the days grow shorter
during the winter months. Phototherapy, a treatment involving a few hours of
exposure to intense light, is effective in relieving depressive symptoms in
patients with SAD.
Other studies on the benefits of
phototherapy found that exposure to early morning sunlight was effective in
relieving seasonal depression. Recent findings, however, suggest that
patients respond equally well to phototherapy whether it is scheduled in the
early afternoon. This has practical applications for antidepressant
treatment since it allows the use of phototherapy in the workplace as well
as the home.